Rasulullah (Sallellaho Alaihe Wasallam) said, “The person who serves his mother, then paradise is beneath her feet.” Never hurt the heart of your mother in the matter of your wife. Consult with some Allahwala in this regard. Explain with compassion to your wife that her daughter-in-law is to come. However, continue fulfilling the rights due to your wife. It should not be that in fulfilling the right of your mother, you abstain from fulfilling your wife’s rights. Continue asking the Ulama concerning the rights of both, your mother and wife. Make an effort to please both. Fulfill the rights of both. In solitude, meet me or any other person whom Allah Ta'ala granted the good fortune of serving buzurgs and consult. If there are any differences amongst mother and son, then call some Alim so that he could judge. There is no shortage of Ulama who will give you time for Allah’s pleasure. Explain your condition to them. Inshallah, by consulting with them, great evils will be removed. Allah Ta'ala has placed great blessings in consultation. Whenever any matte occurs, then consult with the buzurgs.