I now explained three treatments. The fourth treatment is that you must not go near these people, whether boy or girl. Hazrat Sa‘dî Shîrâzî rahimahullâh says that when there is a lot of mud, even elephants slip and fall. Allâh Ta’ala did not say do not commit adultery. What did He say? He said do not even go near adultery. This is because it is in the nature of man that when he remains with beautiful people, one day he will commit the sin with them. Now if Pakistani Airways employs a woman, can anyone save himself from falling in love with her?

Remember! Remain far from beauty – whether boy or girl. Flee from there or else you will not be able to save yourself. I say it time and again, those who remained near boys and girls were eventually caught in sin. Now there is no respect for beards also. You should therefore not rely on the strength of your self-restraint that you will not be soiled by sin. Allâh Ta’ala has already told us that we are weak:

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Those are the limits set by Allâh, so do not go near them.

(Sûrah al-Baqarah, 2: 187)

Do not go near the limits set by Allâh because you are weak. The one who tries to show his bravery will be disgraced by Satan. If not, after one day, after six months the poison of her love will gradually penetrate you, and you will be caught sinning with that same girl or boy. You should therefore remain aloof from girls, and from handsome young boys. In fact, remain aloof from boys with small beards towards whom you are sexually inclined.